fix: vs2022 compilation, issue #3477 (#3497)

* fix: vs2022 compilation, issue #3477

* silence warning for python 2.7

* disable warning around mbstowcs call

* move disable warning code closer to call site

* turn on vs2022 ci test

* ci: don't run helpers on Windows 2022 & Python 3.5

* limit workaround for stdlib shipped with vs2022 or later

* fix for: limit workaround for stdlib shipped with vs2022 or later

* fix 2 for: limit workaround for stdlib shipped with vs2022 or later

* comment

* ci: add a Windows 2019 run

* ci: add Python 2.7 check too

Co-authored-by: Henry Schreiner <HenrySchreinerIII@gmail.com>