chore: update clang-tidy to 15 (#4387)

* chore: update clang-tidy to 15

* Add git

* Add NOLINTNEXTLINE for assignment in if

* Update CONTRIBUTING.md

* Add NOLINTNEXTLINE where needed

* Add one more NOLINTNEXTLINE

* stl_bind: make more readable

* Another missing NOLINTNEXTLINE

* Match style elsewhere

* Apply reviewer suggestion. Mark false positive