fix: add missing std::forward calls (#3443)

* fix: add missing std::forward calls

Two of the four cpp_function overloads are missing std::forward calls, which seems like a simple oversight.

* add test for https://github.com/pybind/pybind11/pull/3443

* add py tests

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* fix test

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