ALSA: seq: Cancel pending autoload work at unbinding device

ALSA sequencer core has a mechanism to load the enumerated devices
automatically, and it's performed in an off-load work.  This seems
causing some race when a sequencer is removed while the pending
autoload work is running.  As syzkaller spotted, it may lead to some
use-after-free:
  BUG: KASAN: use-after-free in snd_rawmidi_dev_seq_free+0x69/0x70
  sound/core/rawmidi.c:1617
  Write of size 8 at addr ffff88006c611d90 by task kworker/2:1/567

  CPU: 2 PID: 567 Comm: kworker/2:1 Not tainted 4.13.0+ #29
  Hardware name: QEMU Standard PC (i440FX + PIIX, 1996), BIOS Bochs 01/01/2011
  Workqueue: events autoload_drivers
  Call Trace:
   __dump_stack lib/dump_stack.c:16 [inline]
   dump_stack+0x192/0x22c lib/dump_stack.c:52
   print_address_description+0x78/0x280 mm/kasan/report.c:252
   kasan_report_error mm/kasan/report.c:351 [inline]
   kasan_report+0x230/0x340 mm/kasan/report.c:409
   __asan_report_store8_noabort+0x1c/0x20 mm/kasan/report.c:435
   s...