[VPlan] Preserve DT (and SCEV) in VPlan-native path (#93287)

As a follow-up to b2f65e80, use the DTU to also update and preserve
the DT in the native path. This should also allow preserving SCEV in the
native path

PR: https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/93287
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