Revert "[VPlan] Replace disjoint or with add instead of dropping disjoint. (#83821)"

This reverts commit c2c1e6ee. It creates
a use after free.

==8342==ERROR: AddressSanitizer: heap-use-after-free on address 0x50f000001760 at pc 0x55b9fb84a8fb bp 0x7ffc18468a10 sp 0x7ffc18468a08
READ of size 1 at 0x50f000001760 thread T0
 #0 0x55b9fb84a8fa in dropPoisonGeneratingFlags llvm/lib/Transforms/Vectorize/VPlan.h:1040:13
 #1 0x55b9fb84a8fa in llvm::VPlanTransforms::dropPoisonGeneratingRecipes(llvm::VPlan&, llvm::function_ref<bool (llvm::BasicBlock*)>)::$_0::operator()(llvm::VPRecipeBase*) const llvm/lib/Transforms/Vectorize/VPlanTransforms.cpp:1236:23
 #2 0x55b9fb84a196 in llvm::VPlanTransforms::dropPoisonGeneratingRecipes(llvm::VPlan&, llvm::function_ref<bool (llvm::BasicBlock*)>) llvm/lib/Transforms/Vectorize/VPlanTransforms.cpp

Can be reproduced with asan on
Transforms/LoopVectorize/AArch64/sve-interleaved-masked-accesses.ll
Transforms/LoopVectorize/X86/pr81872.ll
Transforms/LoopVectorize/X86/x86-interleaved-accesses-masked-group.ll