[ARM] Ensure instructions are simplified prior to GatherScatter lowering.

Surprisingly, not all instructions are always simplified after unrolling
and before MVE gather/scatter lowering. Notably dead gather operations
can be left around which cause the gather/scatter lowering pass to crash
if there are multiple gathers, some of which are dead.

This patch ensures they are simplified before we modify anything, which
can change some of the existing tests, including making them no-longer
test what they originally tested. This uses a combination of disabling
the gather/scatter lowering pass and adjusting the test to keep them as
before.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D103150