[SimplifyCFG] avoid illegal phi with both poison and undef

In the example based on:
https://llvm.org/PR49218
...we are crashing because poison is a subclass of undef, so we merge blocks and create:

PHI node has multiple entries for the same basic block with different incoming values!
  %k3 = phi i64 [ poison, %entry ], [ %k3, %g ], [ undef, %entry ]

If both poison and undef values are incoming, we soften the poison values to undef.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D97495

(cherry picked from commit 356cdabd)