[ARM] Remove VHADD patterns

These instructions do not work quite like I expected them to. They
perform the addition and then shift in a higher precision integer, so do
not match up with the patterns that we added.

For example with s8s, adding 100 and 100 should wrap leaving the shift
to work on a negative number. VHADD will instead do the arithmetic in
higher precision, giving 100 overall. The vhadd gives a "better" result,
but not one that matches up with the input.

I am just removing the patterns here. We might be able to re-add them in
the future by checking for wrap flags or changing bitwidths. But for the
moment just remove them to remove the problem cases.