[mlir][ods] Populate properties in generated builder (#90430)

Previously this was only populated in the create method later. This
resolves some of invalid builder paths. This may also be sufficient that
type inference functions no longer have to consider whether property
conversion has happened (but haven't verified that yet).

This also makes Attributes corresponding to Properties as optional
inside the set from attributes method. Today that is in effect what
happens with Property value initialization and folks use it to define
custom C++ types whose default initialization is what they want. This is
the behavior users get if they use properties directly. Propagating
Attributes without allowing partial setting would require iterating over
the dictionary attribute considering the properties of the op type that
will be created. This could also have been an additional method
generated or optional behavior on the set method. But doing it
consistently seems better. In terms of whats lost, it does...