[Offload] Use newer CUDA API functions when dynamically loaded (#93057)

Summary:
CUDA does its versioning by putting a redirection in the header so the
API functions remain the same while the symbol changes. These weren't
being used for some functions that required it in the dynamic cuda
version.

These functions have newer verisons that should be used. These are
fairly old as far as I'm aware so we should be able to sweep backward
compatibility under the rug.