[lld-macho] Fix address sanitizer for category merging (#91680)

FIxing the address sanitizer issue reported in
https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/91548 .
The problem comes from the assignment `auto bodyData = newSectionData`
which defaults to `SmallVector<uint8_t> data = newSectionData` - which
actually creates a copy of the data, placed on the stack.
By explicitly using `ArrayRef` instead, we make sure that the original
copy is used.
We also change the assignment in `ObjcCategoryMerger::newStringData`
from `auto` to `SmallVector<uint8_t> &` to make it explicit.