[InstCombine] allow some commutative matches for logical-and to select fold

This is obviously correct for real logic instructions,
and it also works for the poison-safe variants that use
selects:
https://alive2.llvm.org/ce/z/wyHiwX

This is motivated by the lack of 'xor' folding seen in issue #58313.
This more general fold should help reduce some of those patterns,
but I'm not sure if this specific case does anything for that
particular example.