[mlir][transform] Remove `cachedNames` expensive check (#73961)

This check was trying to find cases of invalid API usage:
incorrect/missing handle side effects and/or incorrect rewriter usage.

This check is not implemented correctly and can report false positives
in case of pointer reuse (different op created at same location). It is
unclear if such a check can be implemented given that we have both
tracking listener-based handle updates and handle consumption.

Fixes #72931.