[IR] Use SmallDenseSet (NFC) (#79556)

The use of SmallDenseSet saves 0.39% of heap allocations during the
compilation of a large preprocessed file, namely X86ISelLowering.cpp,
for the X86 target.  During the experiment, WL.size() was 2 or less
99.9% of the time.  The inline size of 4 should accommodate up to 2
entries at the 3/4 occupancy rate.