[CMake] Switch the CMP0091 policy (MSVC_RUNTIME_LIBRARY) to the new behaviour

With the new behaviour, the /MD or similar options aren't added to
e.g. CMAKE_CXX_FLAGS_RELEASE, but are added separately by CMake.
They can be changed by the cmake variable
CMAKE_MSVC_RUNTIME_LIBRARY or with the target property
MSVC_RUNTIME_LIBRARY.

LLVM has had its own custom CMake flags, e.g. LLVM_USE_CRT_RELEASE,
which affects which CRT is used for release mode builds. Deprecate
these and direct users to use CMAKE_MSVC_RUNTIME_LIBRARY directly
instead (and do a best effort attempt at setting CMAKE_MSVC_RUNTIME_LIBRARY
based on the existing LLVM_USE_CRT_ flags). This only handles the
simple cases, it doesn't handle multi-config generators with
different LLVM_USE_CRT_* variables for different configs though,
but that's probably fine - we should move over to the new upstream
CMake mechanism anyway, and push users towards that.

Change code in compiler-rt, that previously tried to override the
CRT choice to /MT, to set CMAKE_MS...