[flang] approximate alias analysis support for hlfir.designate

Add a rough alias analysis rule for hlfir.designate which just follows
the memref argument. This could be extended in the future to take into
account the indices or derived type fields accessed to spot for provably
non-overlapping cases. In the meantime, we need a flag to ensure we
never say "MustAlias" when following a value through a hlfir.designate
because the designate analysis is only approximate.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D157718