[sanitizer] Switch to StackDepotNode to 64bit hash

Now we can avoid scanning the stack on fast path.
The price is the false stack trace with probability of the hash collision.
This increase performance of lsan by 6% and pre-requirement for stack compression.

Depends on D111182.

Reviewed By: morehouse, dvyukov

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D111183