[lld][WebAssembly] Relax limitations on multithreaded instantiation

For multithreaded modules (i.e. modules with a shared memory), lld injects a
synthetic Wasm start function that is automatically called during instantiation
to initialize memory from passive data segments. Even though the module will be
instantiated separately on each thread, memory initialization should happen only
once. Furthermore, memory initialization should be finished by the time each
thread finishes instantiation. Since multiple threads may be instantiating their
modules at the same time, the synthetic function must synchronize them.

The current synchronization tries to atomically increment a flag from 0 to 1 in
memory then enters one of two cases. First, if the increment was successful, the
current thread is responsible for initializing memory. It does so, increments
the flag to 2 to signify that memory has been initialized, then notifies all
threads waiting on the flag. Otherwise, the thread atomically waits on the flag
with an...