[clang-tidy] Add modernize-use-std-format check (#90397)

Add a new clang-tidy check that converts absl::StrFormat (and similar
functions) to std::format (and similar functions.)

Split the configuration of FormatStringConverter out to a separate
Configuration class so that we don't risk confusion by passing two
boolean configuration parameters into the constructor. Add
AllowTrailingNewlineRemoval option since we never want to remove
trailing newlines in this check.