Change GetNumChildren()/CalculateNumChildren() methods return llvm::Expected (#84219)

Change GetNumChildren()/CalculateNumChildren() methods return
llvm::Expected

This is an NFC change that does not yet add any error handling or change
any code to return any errors.

This is the second big change in the patch series started with
https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/83501

A follow-up PR will wire up error handling.