[CUDA][HIP] Fix std::min in wrapper header (#93976)

The std::min behaves like 'a<b?a:b', which does not match
libstdc++/libc++ behavior like 'b<a?b:a' when input is NaN.

Make it consistent with libstdc++/libc++.

Fixes: https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/93962

Fixes: https://github.com/ROCm/HIP/issues/3502