[asan][windows] Eliminate the static asan runtime on windows (#93770)

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Originally #81677

The static asan runtime on windows had various buggy hacks to ensure loaded dlls got the executable's copy of asan, these never worked all that well, so we have eliminated the static runtime altogether and made the dynamic runtime work for applications linking any flavor of the CRT.

Among other things this allows non-asan-instrumented applications to load asan-instrumented dlls that link against the static CRT.

Co-authored-by: Amy Wishnousky <amyw@microsoft.com>