[PassManager] add helper function to hold set of vector passes (2nd try)

This is better no-functional-change-intended than the 1st attempt.
As noted in D102002, there were at least 2 diffs that went
unchecked in pass manager regressions tests: different pass
parameters (SimplifyCFG) and an extension point/callback.
Those should be lifted from the original code blocks correctly
now.