[Support] Attempt to fix deadlock in ThreadGroup

This is an attempt to fix the situation described by https://reviews.llvm.org/D104207#2826290 and PR41508.
See sequence of operations leading to the bug in https://reviews.llvm.org/D104207#3004689

We ensure that the Latch is completely "free" before decrementing the number of TaskGroupInstances.

Differential revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D109914

(cherry picked from commit 7b25fa8c)