[libc++] Make sure LWG2070 is implemented as a DR (#65998)

When we implemented C++20's P0674R1, we didn't enable the part of
P0674R1 that was resolving LWG2070 as a DR. This patch fixes that and
makes sure that we consistently go through the allocator when
constructing and destroying the underlying object in
std::allocate_shared.

Fixes #54365.