[clang] Fix overly aggressive lifetime checks for parenthesized aggregate initialization

Before this patch, initialized class members would have the LifetimeKind
LK_MemInitializer, which does not allow for binding a temporary to a
reference. Binding to a temporary however is allowed in parenthesized
aggregate initialization, even if it leads to a dangling reference. To
fix this, we create a new EntityKind, EK_ParenAggInitMember, which has
LifetimeKind LK_FullExpression.

This patch does *not* attempt to diagnose dangling references as a
result of using this feature.

This patch also refactors TryOrBuildParenListInitialization(...) to
accomodate creating different InitializedEntity objects.

Fixes #61567

[0]: https://www.open-std.org/jtc1/sc22/wg21/docs/papers/2019/p0960r3.html

Reviewed By: shafik

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D148274