[NFC][RemoveDIs] Have CreateNeg only accept iterators (#82999)

Removing debug-intrinsics requires that we always insert with an
iterator, not with an instruction position. To enforce that, we need to
eliminate the `Instruction *` taking functions. It's safe to leave the
insert-at-end-of-block functions as the intention is clear for debug
info purposes (i.e., insert after both instructions and debug-info at
the end of the function).

This patch demonstrates how that needs to happen. At a variety of
call-sites to the `CreateNeg` constructor we need to consider:
* Has this instruction been selected because of the operation it
performs? In that case, just call `getIterator` and pass an iterator in.
* Has this instruction been selected because of it's position? If so, we
need to keep the iterator identifying that position (see the 3rd hunk
changing Reassociate.cpp, although it's coincidentally not debug-info
significant).

This also demonstrates what we'll try and do with the constructor
methods going forwards: have one fully explicit set of parameters
including iterator, and another with default-arguments where the
block-to-insert-into argument defaults to nullptr / no-position,
creating an instruction that hasn't been inserted yet.