[CMake] Update CMake cache file for the Win-to-Arm cross toolchains. NFC. (#93363)

* allow configuration for the target specific compiler flags.
* allow lld linker for all linker outputs: shared, module and exe.
* allow configuration of libc++ ABI version.
* set MSVC runtime library to MultiThreadedDLL/MultiThreadedDebugDLL on
Windows build hosts.
* install UCRT libraries on Windows build hosts