[mlir] Add support for multiple uses in transform.structured.fuse_into_containing_op

In the tile and fuse of the first extract use, we add support
for scenarios where the results of the tiled op have uses
that are dominated by the scf.for_all. Specifically, we replace
the scf.for_all with a new scf.for_all that has an additional
shared_out and add the appropriate parallel insert slice op.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D151275