[clang-format] Annotate ctors/dtors as CtorDtorDeclName instead (#67955)

After annotating constructors/destructors as FunctionDeclarationName in
commit 08630512, we have seen several issues because ctors/dtors had
been treated differently than functions in aligning, wrapping, and
indenting.

This patch annotates ctors/dtors as CtorDtorDeclName instead and would
effectively revert commit 0468fa07, which is obsolete now.

Fixed #67903.
Fixed #67907.