[mlir][sparse] test four row/col major versions of BSR (#72898)

Note, this is a redo of https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/72712
which was reverted due to time outs in the bot. I have timed the tests
on various settings, and it does not even hit the top 20 of integration
tests. To be safe, I removed the SIMD version of the tests, just keeping
libgen/direcIR paths (which are the most important to test for us).

I will also keep an eye on
https://lab.llvm.org/buildbot/#/builders/264/builds after submitting to
make sure there is no repeat.