[clang-tidy] Improve performance of google-runtime-int (#86596)

Main problem with performance of this check is caused by hasAncestor
matcher, and to be more precise by an llvm::DenseSet and std::deque in
matchesAnyAncestorOf.

To reduce impact of this matcher, multiple conditions that were checked
in check method were copied into AST matcher that is now checked before
hasAncestor.

Using custom getCheckTraversalKind to exclude template instances that
shouldn't be checked anyway is an additional improvement, but gain from
that one is low.

Tested on ffl_tests.cc, visible reduction from ~442 seconds to ~15
seconds (~96% reduction).

Closes #86553