Reland "[llvm][AArch64] Insert "bti j" after call to setjmp"

Cherry-picked from c3b98194
which was originally reviewed as https://reviews.llvm.org/D121707.

This reverts commit edb7ba71.

This changes BLR_BTI to take variable_ops meaning that we can accept
a register or a label. The pattern still expects one argument so we'll
never get more than one. Then later we can check the type of the operand
to choose BL or BLR to emit.

(this is what BLR_RVMARKER does but I missed this detail of it first time around)

Also require NoSLSBLRMitigation which I missed in the first version.