[lld-macho] Better deduplication of personality pointers

{D95809} introduced a mechanism for synthetic symbol creation of personality
pointers. When multiple section relocations referred to the same personality
pointer, it would deduplicate them. However, it neglected to consider that we
could have symbol relocations that also refer to the same personality pointer.
This diff fixes it.

In practice, this mix of relocations arises when there is a statically-linked
personality routine that is referenced from multiple object files. Within the
same object file, it will be referred to via section relocations, but
(obviously) other object files will refer to it via symbol relocations. Failing
to deduplicate these references resulted in us going over the
3-personality-pointer limit when linking some larger applications.

Fixes llvm.org/PR48389.

Reviewed By: #lld-macho, thakis, alexshap

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D97245