[ThinLTO] Fix internalization decisions for weak/linkonce ODR

This fixes a runtime error that occurred due to incorrect
internalization of linkonce_odr functions where function pointer
equality was broken. This was hit because the prevailing copy was in a
native object, so the IR copies were not exported, and the existing code
internalized all of the IR copies. It could be fixed by guarding this
internalization on whether the defs are (local_)unnamed_addr, meaning
that their address is not significant (which we have in the summary
currently for linkonce_odr via the CanAutoHide flag). Or we can
propagate reference attributes as we do when determining whether a
global variable is read or write-only (reference edges are annotated
with whether they are read-only, write-only, or neither, and taking the
address of a function would result in a reference edge to the function
that is not read or write-only).

However, this exposed a larger issue with the internalization handling.
Looking at test cases, it appears ...