[CMake][compiler-rt][libunwind] Compile assembly files as ASM not C, unify workarounds

It isn't very wise to pass an assembly file to the compiler and tell it to compile as a C file and hope that the compiler recognizes it as assembly instead.
Simply don't mark the file as C and CMake will recognize the rest.

This was attempted earlier in https://reviews.llvm.org/D85706, but reverted due to architecture issues on Apple.
Subsequent digging revealed a similar change was done earlier for libunwind in https://reviews.llvm.org/rGb780df052dd2b246a760d00e00f7de9ebdab9d09.
Afterwards workarounds were added for MinGW and Apple:
* https://reviews.llvm.org/rGb780df052dd2b246a760d00e00f7de9ebdab9d09
* https://reviews.llvm.org/rGd4ded05ba851304b26a437896bc3962ef56f62cb

The workarounds in libunwind and compiler-rt are unified and comments added pointing to each other.
The workaround is updated to only be used for MinGW for CMake versions before 3.17, which fixed the issue (https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/cmake/-/mer...