[clangd] go-to-def on names in comments etc that are used nearby.

Summary:
This is intended as a companion to (and is inspired by) D72874 which attempts to
resolve these cases using the index.
The intent is we'd try this strategy after the AST-based approach but before the
index-based (I think local usages would be more reliable than index matches).

Reviewers: nridge

Subscribers: ilya-biryukov, MaskRay, jkorous, arphaman, kadircet, usaxena95, cfe-commits

Tags: #clang

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D75479