[mlir][linalg][bufferize] Decouple BufferizationAliasInfo

Move dialect-specific and analysis-specific function out of BufferizationAliasInfo. BufferizationAliasInfo's only job now is to keep track of aliases.

This is in preparation of futher decoupling ComprehensiveBufferize from various dialects.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D112992