[NFC][DebugInfo][RemoveDIs] Use iterators to insert in callsite-splitting (#74455)

This patch gets call site splitting to use iterators for insertion
rather than instruction pointers. When we switch on non-instr debug-info
this becomes significant, as the iterators are going to signal whether
or not a position is before or after debug-info.

NFC as this isn't going to affect the output of any existing test.