[mlir][transform] Consistent `linalg` `transform` op syntax for dynamic index lists (#90897)

This patch is a first pass at making consistent syntax across the
`LinalgTransformOp`s that use dynamic index lists for size parameters.
Previously, there were two different forms: inline types in the list, or
place them in the functional style tuple. This patch goes for the
latter.

In order to do this, the `printPackedOrDynamicIndexList`,
`printDynamicIndexList` and their `parse` counterparts were modified so
that the types can be optionally provided to the corresponding custom
directives.

All affected ops now use tablegen `assemblyFormat`, so custom
`parse`/`print` functions have been removed. There are a couple ops that
will likely add dynamic size support, and once that happens it should be
made sure that the assembly remains consistent with the changes in this
patch.

The affected ops are as follows: `pack`, `pack_greedily`,
`tile_using_forall`. The `tile_using_for` and `vectorize` ops already
used this syntax, but their custom assembly was removed.

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Co-authored-by: Oleksandr "Alex" Zinenko <ftynse@gmail.com>