[X86] Change how we treat functions with explicit sections as small/large (#88172)

Following #78348, we should treat functions with an explicit section as
small, unless the section name is (or has the prefix) ".ltext".

Clang emits global initializers into a ".text.startup" section on Linux.
If we mix small/medium code model object files with large code model
object files, we'll end up mixing sections with and without the large
section flag.

Reland of #87838 with a check for non-ELF platforms in
TargetMachine::isLargeGlobalValue(), otherwise MCJIT on Windows tests
fail.