[MachO] Use error instead of fatal for missing -arch

`fatal` should only be used for malformed inputs according to
ErrorHandler.h; `error` is more appropriate for missing arguments,
accompanied by a check to bail out early in case of the error. Some
tests need to be adjusted accordingly.

Makes `lld/test/MachO/arch.s` pass with `LLD_IN_TEST=2`.

Reviewed By: #lld-macho, int3

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D112879