[mlir][bytecode] Avoid recording null arglocs & realloc opnames.

For block arg locs a common case is no/uknown location (where the producer
signifies they don't care about blockarg location). Also avoid needing to
dynamically resize opnames during parsing.

Assumed to be post lazy loading change, so chose version 3.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D151038