[mlir][ods] add mechanism for deprecating an `OpBuilder` in ODS

This allows discouraging the use of specific build methods of an op by having TableGen generate C++ code, instructing the C++ compiler to warn on use of the `build` method.
The implementation uses the C++14 `[[deprecated(...)]]`` for this purpose. I considered using `LLVM_DEPRECATED`, but thought requiring a fix-it was not necassery, nor would the syntax in ODS have been very nice.

My motivation for this change is that in the future I'd like to deprecate the use `build` methods in the LLVM Dialect, not using explicit pointer types for ops such as `llvm.load` or `llvm.alloca`, which makes the code not future proof for opaque pointers. In-tree has to be clean first before I could commit such a change of course, but I thought the initial infrastructure change could already be submitted.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D143190