[ARM] Update IsRestored for LR based on all returns (#82745)

PR #75527 fixed ARMFrameLowering to set the IsRestored flag for LR based
on all of the return instructions in the function, not just one.
However, there is also code in ARMLoadStoreOptimizer which changes
return instructions, but it set IsRestored based on the one instruction
it changed, not the whole function.

The fix is to factor out the code added in #75527, and also call it from
ARMLoadStoreOptimizer if it made a change to return instructions.

Fixes #80287.

(cherry picked from commit 749384c0)