fou: add Kconfig options for IPv6 support

A previous patch added the fou6.ko module, but that failed to link
in a couple of configurations:

net/built-in.o: In function `ip6_tnl_encap_add_fou_ops':
net/ipv6/fou6.c:88: undefined reference to `ip6_tnl_encap_add_ops'
net/ipv6/fou6.c:94: undefined reference to `ip6_tnl_encap_add_ops'
net/ipv6/fou6.c:97: undefined reference to `ip6_tnl_encap_del_ops'
net/built-in.o: In function `ip6_tnl_encap_del_fou_ops':
net/ipv6/fou6.c:106: undefined reference to `ip6_tnl_encap_del_ops'
net/ipv6/fou6.c:107: undefined reference to `ip6_tnl_encap_del_ops'

If CONFIG_IPV6=m, ip6_tnl_encap_add_ops/ip6_tnl_encap_del_ops
are in a module, but fou6.c can still be built-in, and that
obviously fails to link.

Also, if CONFIG_IPV6=y, but CONFIG_IPV6_TUNNEL=m or
CONFIG_IPV6_TUNNEL=n, the same problem happens for a different
reason.

This adds two new silent Kconfig symbols to work around both
problems:

- CONFIG_IPV6_FOU is now always set to 'm' if either CONFIG_NET_FOU=m
  or CONFIG_I...