qd65xx: fix deadlock on error handling

Stop abusing ide_lock lock (switch to a private locking).

Fixes same issue as fixed by Alan Cox in atiixp host driver with
commit 6c5f8cc3

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Cc: Sergei Shtylyov <sshtylyov@ru.mvista.com>
Cc: Jeff Garzik <jeff@garzik.org>
Signed-off-by: Bartlomiej Zolnierkiewicz <bzolnier@gmail.com>