io_uring/net: ensure socket is marked connected on connect retry

io_uring does non-blocking connection attempts, which can yield some
unexpected results if a connect request is re-attempted by an an
application. This is equivalent to the following sync syscall sequence:

sock = socket(AF_INET, SOCK_STREAM | SOCK_NONBLOCK, IPPROTO_TCP);
connect(sock, &addr, sizeof(addr);

ret == -1 and errno == EINPROGRESS expected here. Now poll for POLLOUT
on sock, and when that returns, we expect the socket to be connected.
But if we follow that procedure with:

connect(sock, &addr, sizeof(addr));

you'd expect ret == -1 and errno == EISCONN here, but you actually get
ret == 0. If we attempt the connection one more time, then we get EISCON
as expected.

io_uring used to do this, but turns out that bluetooth fails with EBADFD
if you attempt to re-connect. Also looks like EISCONN _could_ occur with
this sequence.

Retain the ->in_progress logic, but work-around a potential EISCONN or
EBADFD error and only in those cases l...