block: Add config option to not allow writing to mounted devices

Writing to mounted devices is dangerous and can lead to filesystem
corruption as well as crashes. Furthermore syzbot comes with more and
more involved examples how to corrupt block device under a mounted
filesystem leading to kernel crashes and reports we can do nothing
about. Add tracking of writers to each block device and a kernel cmdline
argument which controls whether other writeable opens to block devices
open with BLK_OPEN_RESTRICT_WRITES flag are allowed. We will make
filesystems use this flag for used devices.

Note that this effectively only prevents modification of the particular
block device's page cache by other writers. The actual device content
can still be modified by other means - e.g. by issuing direct scsi
commands, by doing writes through devices lower in the storage stack
(e.g. in case loop devices, DM, or MD are involved) etc. But blocking
direct modifications of the block device page cache is enough to give
filesystems...